My mother nurtures us with food and stuff, when we're sick she takes care of us greatly and gets very worried. But, she has never nurtured our minds. She is 98% of the time a negative person, blindly racist, it's like she's never accessed her higher thinking capabilities, but she's a master's in pharmacy, which makes it weirder. She never thinks thoroughly about a problem, she always meets it with negativity and misery. Many psychiatric thinkers say some people can't be changed by your alchemy of love and positivity. Remember she is always ready to do much of anything for us kids, but she destroys us with her negativity and misery. So is she a good mother or not?
Mar 24, 2022She had a long life. Lots of things that she saw... Maybe she too tired. She is being good in her own way although she know she should be better on the flaws you mentioned she have, maybe this is her trying her best... Maybe she had it rough... She is your mother and like u say she shows you love, she is counting on you to be the better person without expecting everything from her... We respect our parents but we should look up to god. Your mom is good, she loves you... Which means she want all that's best for you... You don't gotta accept every thing she say... She didn't raise a robot, she raised you and send you out to the world so that you can see things clearer ,... You are just like a hatching eggs compared to your mom and your path is different from your mom's... Don't get influenced in the bad, learn all the beauty and teach her too, or else one day your child will ask the same question you just asked us. Just because we love someone it doesn't mean we should accept everything about them. The same way god love us but don't agree with our sins.
Mar 25, 2022