Here's the thing, my mom and I aren't as close as she is with my siblings We constantly argue She always says snide remarks about everything I do,say, or wear. And it's very frustrating I try so hard to get her approval To feel accomplished and loved but she always finds something wrong about me I honestly believe that she loves my siblings more because in her eyes they can never do wrong Even if they do something wrong I'm the one who gets yelled because I "should have stopped them" Theres so much responsibility I carry but she never acknowledges it I try soooo hard but it's like nothing I do is ever enough for her and I feel like a failure She always judges me hence leading to my self deprecation,low self esteem and social anxiety And tbh I dont know what to do anymore Any advice here, I could really use some P.s I'm a girl
Aug 12, 2020The only way is to open up nd tell her hw u feel im sure she will understand nd she might ask for forgiveness no mother wants her daughter to feel that way plus that is how most ethiopians raise their child it is part of the culture they think by mistreating , you will learn and act more responsible they think u will grow neger. Stop trying to prove her wrong just do what is right
Aug 12, 2020