#personal My husband is a great guy, I love his personality and everything is perfect except he askes me for favors and it's getting too much and I feel disrespected because he doesnt let me know a head of time rather tells me to do it right when he thought of it. And when i do work for him. He still plays the victom that i didnt do it with a smile on my face. What should i do? am I overthinking? I am a graphic designer.
Aug 10, 2020Talk to your husband. Don't ask random people on how to solve your marital issues.
Aug 10, 2020Okay I need to say sth...first of all I don't totally agree with the first commenter sijmer..siketl gn why do u think it's a favor ende he's ur husband eko and you both are working for one another enji eko lesu yehon negr selagezeshw esu lebchaw yemtikmew negr aynorm, you are married and supporting eachother is not a work eko Des belosh yematergiw negr,yaw kebeza seraw demo u can be honest and tell him ,ene endegbagn gn I think more moraleshn yegdelw and as a favor eyayesh yalebtm meknyat is cuz of his comments keserash behuala, endeza kehon demo talk to him bednb tergagtachu and serious honesh and tell him that you do ur best ena yetbkew negr kalhon demo he should support u enji not act endeza..am not making u the bad person here,just favor selalesh yaw nd since you are married endeza feel atargi like u are doing him a favor mnamn cuz marriage is about mainly about loving and supporting your loved one even sayteyku..and if you have sth in your mind Des kalalesh ,build a habit in your relationship to talk with him everything you don't like and to reach somewhere you both are comfortable with,I promise you talk it out hulunm des yemayleshn negr with your husband..I tell you this because it makes my relationship with my girl so much strong and beautiful
Aug 10, 2020Why do we have to know you are graphics designer
Aug 10, 2020Just to keep your minds from wondering around thinking ' what does she do for him. '
Aug 10, 2020Hey, I currently left a relationship just like you described. And i partially know how you feel. And since you are in a life long commitment it's won't be as easy as it is to walk away from like mine. But you are not anyone's errand boy. And you must ask yourself if you were the one who asked that off him how would he respond ?? And also the more you are obedient to his request the more he will take advantage off of it so i suggest you sit him down and tell him you are his wife and you also have your own career and personal goals to achieve for the greater good of both your lives and that you don't like it when he asks too much favours from you. Well he might react two ways... where he logically reasons out his intetions and you guys come to a common understanding Or like my ex he will lash out act defensive like he was a saint and that you are some how hysterical menamen. And honestly i think you should stand your ground and do as you please. Know your worth.đ By: Anonymous a few seconds ago
Aug 10, 2020Thank you, thats really helpfull.
Aug 10, 2020i think you should just do what he asks you with a big smile in your face and be happy that you are helping, that way he will respect you and will love you even more that way he will restrain himself from asking you to much he wonât have that attitude âmen tametalechâ thing. just try it and see the difference đ
Aug 24, 2020Try to tolerate it for the time But your patience needs a limit ... try to tell him what you feel ... If things donât turn out to be going in a good trajectory... my advice is getting out before it gets messy
Aug 11, 2020Communication is key in any relationship. It is better to let him know that he is making you Uncomfortable . Choose your words wisely and tell him.
Aug 11, 2020kill'em
Aug 10, 2020Well next time make him pay 4 z smile, its fuckin living off of u
Aug 11, 2020& why did u need to mention ur a graphic designer??
Aug 11, 2020He's ur husband. Doing things for him shouldn't have to be hard. The only simple thing you can do is talk to him about it. Thats the solution.
Aug 10, 2020