My ex had real problems with condoms. He can't stay hard in them. I think it is psychological. Anyway, I tried to make it work for a year then covid came and we stopped meeting. The last time we did it he suggested that I take contraceptives. On our time apart, I thought about it and felt like he was taking advantage of me. All Contraceptives have side effects and they aren't 100%. Neither is condom but if you sync it with you cycle it is fool proof. Here is my question, ladies do you think it is fair to take something that wrecks your body for minuets of fun??? And lets be honest sex is mostly fun for the dude 😁