My girlfriend, whom I am living with for a year now is so mean to me when we fight, which we do at least three times a week for the past month or two, could not stop smoking cigarettes. I do smoke with her too but I want to stop but she just would not. I tried so hard. I finally gave her the choice, me or the cigar. She told me I am abusive and I do not have the authority over her. I left the house and she's been texting me sorry. It's been the second day today but I do not think I want to go back home. The situation is more complicated than that but ... what do you think I should do?
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