I am a muslim so you know am goi.g to tell you the islamic way you both know you are in a haram relationship ..if you are planing to marry each ather why don't you do it know ? Is it b/c of financial problem or something else ? I have been i. Thos kind of situation you think you r going to marry but at some point your gone breakup . Marry if you both can else just fears your god and get out of this haram r/n ..