Can someone clarify the difference between liking loving and being obsessed with a person Im a girl and fresh unv student Here is the thing i met a guy in unv we were in a group total of 5 and i was the only girl so everyone liked to pick on me this guy particularly used to treat me like his little sister he was supportive when i needed and also make fun of me untill i cried my eyes out he would pick on me any chance he get and i liked that very much even though i cried or had bad days because of him i didn't hate it and i was starting to think i loved him too plus the other guys also thought i fallen for him but i never imagined things with him i just wanted him to be my friend after sometime he stopped hanging around with us i was super busy with school stuf i couldn't get to talk to him and when i finally did he said he moved on and found him self a new group people with the same religion and that day i saw him with them and i was frustrated i couldn't study and left the library and i started hating him for real ... Long story short i started talking to him again and asked what happened he said he didn't have a reason "one time i was with u guys the next i was with them" thats exactly what he said and i thought i finally made peace with what happened and yet i cant seem to just forget him or move on i really want to get back to being friends Do u think im obsessed with him or do i really love him or what is this?