I always seek for validation.. My happiness is always based on someone's perspective of me .. Lately I am feeling so lonely I don't know what I need but I feel so empty I guess I am addicted to the feeling of not being happy idk if it makes sense. have any one feel the same? How did u get over it.. How can I be happy?
Dec 04, 2021Omg, I am here to 😄"i am addicted to the feeling of not being happy " it makes sense for me kmr btam lemwtat molrku gn bka tmlso memtatu aykrm
Dec 05, 2021
do what you love is the key, honestly let me tell you bout mine I have no one, no friends and siblings, mom n dad will never understand me ever since I was a kid so, I built my world around me, am introvert but I take good care of myself so love yourself appreciate yourself and find a hobby or a passion on something that makes you happy, you don't need anyone's validation try to adapt to stand out alone and relay on yourself.
Dec 04, 2021I feel the same like am obsessed with being sad i don't know what to do am just waiting for something to happen
Dec 05, 2021When did u feel this feeling.. I mean what is the source.. I couldn't figure out mine
Dec 05, 2021
i don't exactly know how u can be happy but seeking ppls validation or getting it won't make u happy, what ever feeling u thought u experience isn't happinesses too. i would recommend u to find ur purpose in like, as most would say, and a connection with ur inner self mnamn
Dec 04, 2021Hey so this is gonna be my own take on what it means to be happy. 1. First thing Is being happy no matter what you think is a choice maybe not an easy one but it's still one people end up making at every turn and the sad thing is up to some level you are choosing not to be happy within your self. 2. Seeking validation in a world where the value we put in things is solely based on how we experience life its not a good habit the first way to fix is it to make sure you understand why u seek it in the first place then work backward 3. Your first problem and solution is that you think your addicted to not being happy. Addiction can be unlearned so read a book, be open to find friends (cause people are not created to exist alone we all need someone), find a habit you like and have a growth mindset that works through problems not get sad cause of them Finally 4. - Chose to be happy then you will be our minds are made to react to our own thoughts. - stop giving space to your bad thoughts when they do come up make sure to not put them out in the universe(do not talk about them - stop talking about negative things in the world if you think the worse the worse will ge to happen you attract the life you visualise) -try to think positive and happy things and through time you will be happy -and lastly love and respect self then act accordingly
Dec 05, 2021What happens around you is not in your power to change or control and you can't make every one happy... But what is happening inside you is your choice dont let any thing to come in side of you if... free your mind and soul and find what you like and don't wory about what people think of your doing... Try to see what you feel and keep doing what makes you happy and Don't let negative energy from your surrounding to inter you and disturb your feeling ❤️
Dec 04, 2021I completely get what u say. And am dealing with it
Sep 18, 2022First u need self validation Love urself Appreciate urself Respect urself Happiness comes from within do not expect anyone to make u happy they can't and be postive keep that in mind 😉
Dec 05, 2021Ehhm.be thank full for what u have now..that's the key for me i mean why r n't u happy koy? First u don't really need peoples validation u don't really need that ! And then be thank full what u have u are blessed to see today ,so God have some plans for u , he is with u so what do.u need more than this ..am sorry gn le ene this is what it really works 😊😊
Dec 04, 2021