You can ask the difficult questions like Who am I? What do I want? Why am I living? mnamn but the problem with those questions is that they're usually very difficult to have one answer to. And I think you should start with the small things and build up yourself to maybe be able to be comfortable in your own skin What's your favourite shoe? Do you like rainy/sunny days? What's your preferred time of day? What things make you angry/ happy/ sad? What can you do to focus better? How does the time of day affect your thoughts and feelings? (Maybe you're motivated at night and laggy in the morning) What are your dark fantasies and what could they mean? . . .