So say there's a mom and a daughter. They don't get along with each other much. the mom got married early and had her in her teens. Then got divorced. Anyway they don't get along with each because the mom isn't supportive emotionally or financially not for school or other stuff.. (except the daughter lived with her for last two years of high school which was hell). On top on that she's really moody. Like she'd say mean things to her, ignores her, the daughter was depressed, hated herself, extreme urge to harm and hurt herself, even suicidal as a child. bicha not motherly at all. Sometimes the mother asks her daughter for money that she saved up and won't return it. If she returned it was with struggle. Now the daughter is in college and lives with her aunt and the mom asked her for a 1000 birr. Should the daughter give it to her?