Bc nobody wants to waste their time begging you, there is all this other ones who wants to go out with them too but they choose you and they asked you out and they wanted to meet you, but you kept your pride and said no, thus, they went the otherway even tho they like you, and if you really was not looking for more of their attention you could have just said yes and meet them up and still keep it friendly, you meet up doesn mean you r in a lovey dovey relation, not every guy is after you. U might be ugly for some people