Okay! Hi fellow Ethiopians! Hope you give me cure for my problem! My problem so far has been that I couldn't talk with my parents. I'm a teen FYI. Whatever the thing I say, it is gonna end in an argument and we're gonna have a fight about it. Especially my mom is out of this world, she changes every thing I say into the bad context and my dad isn't acting like a dad. He annoys me and he doesn't hear when I told him to stop. He is acting like a child now a days. With this problem on one hand my biggest probe started when I asked them for motivation or gift for my educational achievement! I learn in LCCS (Cathedral) and I'm not bragging but I'm very Keleme! Almost Every student in our class and our school gets a gift from their parents if they made good progress in school. But my parents are just the another type. I got 92 (average) point sth in the 1st quarter. Then they told me they would award me if I made a better average. So I tried my best and I got a 96.7. And when that happened I asked for 3 things and also I told them that they just have to choose one. The things were a bein sport decoder, a new bicycle and a new guitar. My old bike and my old guitar have been broken. But they showed me their back and ላሽ ሊሉኝ ሞከሩ! I was annoyed that they didn't keep their promise. But I kept my anger to my self and tried to describe that I asked for those things because they are necessities. And they said those things were ኮተት. But i tried to describe briefly to them why I need those things but like i said above, our talks changed into an argument every single time. So the problem is that we are not understanding each other. Adding up to all this misunderstood life, corona came and it gave me a hell of a free time and now I spend all of the day with them, arguing. So I started being bored and I started masturbation in the time. But masturbation wasn't a cure and I got more bored. So now I got 3 problems - me and my parents not understanding each other -masturbation - boredom, depression My life is starting to be a mess and please guys help me. Please! I'm hating my life. Give me advice to love my life back please. Thanks!
May 05, 2020I really dont know how to fix ur problem but i was in cathe too i am in university now but kmr u should be proud of ur self with that results n feel better about ur self i get it it means alot to have those things but dont let having those things ruin ur life. n if it helps i dont know but when my parents say no to the things i want i always say i will get it my self one day it might not be soon but it will be motivation for my self which is a good thing so just start to be okay with how ur parents r n be grateful for what they have done for you all these years and be the bigger person here n let it go n work hard n get those result not to get gifts just do it for ur own sake for ur future eshi n prove them wrong one day ኮተት endalhone eshi And atlast if u have religion pray n have faith☺️
May 05, 2020