For me my faith in Christ comes first before anything else. Be it a freind , family or lover. For example when i was in highschool there was this girl that i had a crush on and i mean a very deep crush. But she didn't have the same faith as me so i never gotten closer to her. When you choose someone to be in a relationship with, that person needs to have the same belief as you otherwise you wouldn't get along. So... yeah.