its been awhile since i found out i'm a commitment phobe, i've only been 1 one serious relationship which ended bitterly on my side. after the break up i swore off men minamin but after that i developed this shell where i only wanna be with a guy to just have fun and nothing more and this began to be a habit where i flirt and meet up with different types of guys simultaneously long story short i met this guy online and got a chance to meet he seems like a stand up guy who could be a potential hubby i really like him but he wants something serious me on the other hand the thought of settling with a guy scares the living shit outta me and i really want to change myself and be like normal girls😔 what do i need to do to change this? its really affecting my life